
Most Times Life Moves You Forward...But What Happens When it Doesn't?
If you've not read The Comfort Trap or, What If You're Riding a Dead Horse? by Judith Sills, I'd recommend that you do. In my coaching practice I meet women who are stuck in their jobs but who do not have the courage to move on; and women who know that something is deeply missing in their marriage or life, but can't bear to rock that boat; or women who know what they need to do, know the conversation that is overdue, know the friendship that needs to be distanced---but they cannot move--they are painfully paralyzed.
Judith Sills, the author of this book, calls this "The Comfort Trap"--being stuck in a comfort zone. "Face it", she says, "the horse is dead, and it is time to get off!" The author shares her valuable insights on how to get off. Lights On! is about helping women to face and embrace life's situations. How do you break out of your comfort zone and make changes when life isn't moving you forward? The basic question is this: What would you do if your weren't afraid? Consider the merry-go-round. Once you are on it....it is up to you to choose when you are going to get off. Or, are you going to stay with the spinning....round and round and round? Is life moving you forward? Or are you at a place where you need to break out of your comfort zone and make some changes?
Claire Knowles is a retired HR and Labor Relations Manager, certified in both Coaching and Mediation. Her coaching focus can be viewed at (www.lightsonworkshop.com)






